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Lay Volunteers
Volunteering is about serving and growing
As a senior at the University of Illinois, Kristine Wollscheid wasn’t
sure what to do after graduation. Her one desire was to try living in
another part of the country. A teacher recommended volunteer opportunities
through the Catholic Network of Volunteer Services. Sounding like a good
idea, Kristine checked out her options and soon discovered the work of
the Sisters of Bon Secours.
In 1998, the sisters expanded our ministry
by forming a volunteer program. People over the age of 21 were invited
to serve for one year in adult education, outreach, healthcare, social
services, after-school tutoring, and Hispanic ministries while living
in a faith community together.
"As soon as I met some of the sisters, it just
felt right," Kristine remembers.
Experience spurs growth
The
volunteer program is basically a faith-based Peace Corps for domestic
volunteer service.
It promotes spiritual growth as well as community living. Bon Secours
volunteers work in Baltimore, Maryland and Richmond, Virginia, and live
with other
volunteers
during
their year
of service.
The community
they build with one another can be as important as the work they do every
day. We
ask them to do more than live together. We ask them to share their faith
journey as they go through a year of service.
Kristine started her year of service in 1999. She worked
at the Women’s
Resource Center in Baltimore. The center, created by Sr. Pat Dowling,
CBS, focuses on meeting the needs of women who are homeless or at risk
of becoming homeless. The goal is to bring all needed resources to one
location. Women drop in to eat breakfast, do laundry, shower, use the
telephone to make appointments, report domestic violence, get counseling,
and help with other problems through a referral system.
Work requires a connection to faith
Kristine served as an advocate for the women simply by offering a listening
ear and making referrals to agencies for needed services. "One woman," she
explains, "came regularly for help to stay in drug treatment, seek
employment and get on her feet to support her five children." The
gravity of Kristine’s work often drove her to seek support from
her faith. "I had to really connect with my faith, because sometimes
the situations we encountered were devastating for me."
Many of the women Kristine helped were single mothers.
She had never known people who lived in such difficult circumstances.
The domestic
violence cases were especially hard. "To see a woman walk in with
a black eye or a laceration was heart-wrenching. It was necessary to
look beyond and connect with my faith to find the strength and peace
needed to continue working."
To
support the volunteers, weekly community nights are held where they talk
about where they have seen God in the course of
the day, or
where it felt like God was absent. They share the joys and frustrations
of their work. During these sessions, they pray together, learn new skills
to improve effectiveness, and learn more about Catholic activists like
Dorothy Day and the Sisters of Bon Secours. The volunteers all
come with the same heart and the same desire. They
are for the most part, the extraordinary student; someone who has a strong
commitment to serving and being with others.
We look for volunteers driven by an apostolic spirit,
someone who wants to do something for others and who expects nothing
in return. It
is a true desire to see that someone is given the opportunities, assistance,
direction, and support they need to become self-sufficient individuals.
Eyes opened to a new view of the world
The volunteers’ experiences transform them into people with a different
view of the world. One volunteer came from a very
successful job in the corporate world. Her search for meaning in life
came up short. Coming to Bon Secours to volunteer in an after school
program tutoring at risk children, though, changed her life. After getting
her teacher’s certificate, she now teaches underprivileged children
and loves it.
Kristine also left her year of service with a different
focus for her life. She had been considering social work as a career,
but found a renewed
interest growing in nursing. She is now studying nursing in Baltimore
where she stays in touch with some of her Bon Secours friends. "The
sisters are a really good support system," Kristine says. "It’s
just a good place to figure out who you are and what you want to do to
make a difference in people’s lives while having a strong network
of people around you."
Spreading the word
The volunteers are a witness to what the Sisters of Bon Secours want
to accomplish. Former volunteers share their stories
with their families and people in their hometowns, spreading their
witness and acting as informal recruiters for the volunteer program.
They are the best recruiters. They are happy, and that speak volumes.
Volunteer who can’t get enough
serves two years
Morgen Smith was studying foreign affairs at the University of Virginia
when she realized she would graduate soon but still did not feel sure
about her next step in life. Volunteering seemed like a good way to explore
the world and take time to figure things out. So a few months before
graduation, she started looking into volunteer programs.
She searched two booklets of program descriptions, crossing
out the locations where she didn’t want to live and work she didn’t want to
do. She visited the Bon Secours program in Baltimore and it felt like
the right place for her to be, so she signed on to volunteer for one
year in the after-school tutoring and mentoring program for inner-city
children.
Morgen spent her mornings checking in with families. If
a student had been behaving differently than usual, she would contact
the family to
find out what was going on at home. It could be that the family’s
electricity had been cut off so the child’s routine was disrupted.
During lunch time, Morgen walked to Bon Secours Hospital for Mass and
lunch with the hospital’s pastoral care staff. "I had never
really attended daily mass before and it was a good opportunity in the
middle of the day to make time for that and remember why I was called
to serve in the first place," she says. It also gave her an opportunity
to swap stories with people who work at the hospital.
Morgen also planned the activities for the after-school
program, sometimes coordinating students from a local university and
senior citizens who
offered to help. She set up the church hall, and then worked with the
30 to 35 students who attended the program, helping with homework,
discussion groups and field trips.
Finding her place in the world
During that year, Morgen lived with other volunteers who were serving
through Catholic Charities. Being with that group challenged her to think
more about who she was and her place in the world.
Morgen had long been drawn to vegetarianism and environmentally sustainable
habits, but she couldn’t articulate why those things attracted
her. During her volunteer time, she began to see how those actions were
tied to global justice and solidarity with the poor. One way of acting
justly, she realized, is to refuse to buy clothes that are made by people
in sweat shops in foreign countries.
She also gained a deeper understanding of how the poor
in inner city neighborhoods are confronted by injustice every day. In
the neighborhood
where she worked, for example, there was only one grocery store so
it got away with charging higher than normal prices.
Morgen also began to see the Catholic Church as more than
just a place to go on Sundays to attend Mass. "It was an invitation to put your
faith into action and learn about social justice and what it means to
be Catholic, what it means to be Christian. It’s not just learning
to follow rules. It’s the way you live your life every day."
The experience was so positive Morgen signed on for a
second year with Bon Secours. "I just couldn’t get enough," she says.
Looking back, Morgen marvels at how the experience was
so much more transforming than she could have predicted. At the end of
her second year of volunteer
work, she decided to attend the University of Pennsylvania Law School. "My
goal is to provide legal representation to the urban poor," she
says. "I think it’s something I never would have thought about
or known about if I hadn’t volunteered."

   
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